When you think of your wedding DJ, you might picture someone behind a booth, hyping up the crowd. But inclusive wedding DJs offer something far more impactful—they create an environment where every guest, regardless of identity, feels welcome and celebrated. These DJs understand the emotional stakes and cultural nuances of weddings in a way that goes beyond song selection.
We asked inclusive wedding DJs from across the U.S. to share their best advice on creating inclusive, joyful events.
Every Word Counts
“Inclusion starts at the mic,” says William “DJ Hercules” Sanchez of Hercules Entertainment in Woodbridge, VA. “From introductions to toasts, how we speak sends a signal. Getting it right shows respect.” He’s known throughout Virginia for his care with language and his work as an LGBTQ+ wedding DJ.
Deep Listening Builds Trust
“Inclusion isn’t about getting a checklist right—it’s about making people feel heard,” shares Allen “Big Daddy” Walker of Big Daddy Walker Productions in Cincinnati. His clients praise the way he asks thoughtful questions and personalizes each event accordingly.
Connection Through Bilingual Communication
Carlos of Don Carlo Events in Chicago offers a warm, bilingual approach that ensures every guest is included. “When I switch between English and Spanish during a toast, I’m helping both sides of the family feel connected to the moment,” he explains.
Planning Tools That Reflect Identity
Steve Anderson of BlendMasters DJ Services in Richmond, VA, empowers his clients to build playlists that reflect who they are. “Using our planning app, they can include everything from Bollywood to Beyoncé,” he jokes. “That’s real representation.”
Every Guest Deserves to Be Comfortable
For DJ Kenny of Sound Storm DJ Service in Central Minnesota, inclusion is also physical. “We ask about mobility and sensory needs. No one should be excluded by poor sound design or setup,” he says.
Representation Matters
Heather Laughman, founder of HD Entertainment in Gettysburg, PA, runs the only all-female DJ team in her area. “Some couples are nervous until they see us,” she shares. “Then their shoulders drop. It’s like—finally, someone who gets us.”
Culture Isn’t a Footnote—It’s a Feature
Jose De Leon of LEM Entertainment in Union, NJ, integrates culture into every aspect of planning. “We want every wedding to reflect both families’ heritages,” he says. “That starts from the very first meeting.”
Holding Space with Skill
Jay Ejercito of Momentz Productions in Chicago brings balance to every wedding. “Being inclusive doesn’t mean being loud,” he says. “It means being intentional.” His clients often mention how well he reads the room.
Bringing Everyone Into the Moment
Seth Michaels of Michaels Entertainment in Troy, MI, offers livestreaming and adaptive setups for weddings that need a hybrid element. “Inclusion includes grandma watching from across the country,” he says. “That connection matters.”
Inclusive from the Inside Out
Joe Bunn leads Bunn DJ Company, with teams in Raleigh, Charlotte, Charleston, Richmond, San Diego, and Bozeman. “We’ve built our brand on making people feel included—before they even walk in the door,” he says.
Celebrate with People Who Celebrate You
Inclusive DJs do more than throw a good party—they create space for you and your guests to be your whole selves. That kind of energy is priceless. Whether you need a bilingual DJ or a team that honors your traditions, start by working with vendors who value inclusion.
About the Author:
Brian Lawrence is a wedding industry strategist known for inclusive marketing, accessible design, and producing the 2025 Inclusive Wedding Summit.